To what degree have I actually controlled the course my life has taken?
I would say that under God's influence, I have had a lot of control over the course of my life. I've also been very lucky to have married a reasonable and understanding man. Through prayer, I/we have been able to make many decisions: what college to go to, when to get married, where to move, when and what house to buy, when to have children.

Sometimes, life can feel like this obstacle course. At those times, I must remember that God is ultimately in control and that however many obstacles there are, He has my best interest at heart.